first of all I enjoyed reading all three you have wrote so far... and I think I can relate to "so cold,so gone so over you", I got pushed away by someone I would have gave my life for, I was to the point of willing to be just friends,I understood how these things work, but I still felt like I was misled and got used...anyway this is not about me, I wanted to ask a question about your poem, this poem to me seemed to be about a love in the past that was over, but was preventing a possible new love from starting, maybe because of the love you still had for him and how it ended, am I wrong?Please keep writing, its helpful, I think, to others hurting like you....